Currently having a very thoughtful conversation with yi hui about love. So here's my theory.

The common love couples we see around us, *active teenagers* tend to fall in and out of love often. Why does that happen? Why are they so active. Its like a cycle no?

Guy and girl breaks up. Either one of them will eventually move on first and find another partner. The other spouse would probably be thinking, "Hey, I can't believe he/she moved on alr. Maybe I should too. FIND A BETTER ONE STILL!" So someone will come into their life, looking all merry and cherry. But its only if not, just temporary infatuation.

So... my theory is, when one is not happy that the other moved on, it'll maybe fuel himself to move on and find another girl. But sooner or later, like all the infatuated people around us, they will break up. And they will move on again.

Reverse psychology? The search for a better partner everytime one breaks up. And if my theory is right, that is why ppl who fall in and out of love so often just can't seem to settle down.

Then there are the very sad minority of ppl like me, who eventually finds the "special someone" will experience major love-sickness. :S Sigh~

Wow, I cld write a book about this. ><

And yh agreed. lol!

Oh and, if you think going in and out of relationships is an "experience". Ask yourself first, can you handle it.

On a 2nd note, something happened when I was taking the MRT.

I entered and saw an empty seat. Just when I was ABOUT to sit down, like in a hunching position, I saw an elderly chinese woman and gave the seat to her. 2 elderly malay women who were sitting nearby smiled at me. *Felt very noble. HEHS. ^^ v smiled back of course.*

At the next stop, someone who was sitting next to the woman I gave my seat to stood up. As I was in front of that empty seat I was the first to notice. So as I was ABOUT to sit down, this time my butt was nearly touching the seat, another elderly woman came in through the door and was heading towards my seat. The 2 malay, and the chinese elderly who I gave my seat to burst out in laughter when I had to give my sit away again. ><

Unbelievable.

Gave in to fate and stood throughout the journey instead.